Talk:Oh, What Hard Luck Stories They All Hand Me/@comment-25584522-20150201002258/@comment-26106320-20150201011145

^thats why I said it gets along with hurt. Obiviousley if you hit your wife you will hurt her. In the moment that she feels the physical pain it becomes violence. People on her might misunderstand that I'm speaking about the victim "calling" it violence. But defining something starts in the head.

And your're right, I can't tell if she's insulted by it. But I'm a person who thinks that persons in the show biz are thick-skinned and can handle this kind of jokes. That is me, I'm not assuming people are "weak" or "insulted" by every little thing I do. If I'm shopping with a girl for instance I never ask the girl to carry the grocery bags. Because imo thats sexist and if its to heavy for her, she'd tell me. Then I would help her. I don't want to be a person with that kind of prejudices. However, I know in order to live in a society you have to balance your prejudices to make the right choices in the right moments. And sometimes, I still have problems balancing them properly, but I'm only human. I still try to see the strength and best in humans.