Talk:Through a Glass, Darkly/@comment-25584522-20141223214638

I just wanted to say something about this wikia. I love sharing theories and ideas with many people, as crazy as those theories may be. I'm not trying to attack on any of the admins, because I have nothing but respect for all the great and hard work they do, did or will do in the future.

But the fact is, the PLL wikia became really uncomfortable place to visit and discuss anything. I had some really nice and and quite un-orthodox theories about Alison, Emily and some other characters (each seperately), and to be honest - in the middle of writing the first one I decided to give up, because I knew I would probably be attacked for daring to portray Alison in a way that she may not eventually be.

What I'm trying to say, is that I don't blame anyone at the wikia - members, anons or admins - but as an "outsider" who only became a fan of PLL not so long ago, the stereotypes about this fandom sometimes can be quite accurate. Forgive me for lumping everyone right now, I know there are people who are not like that.

I have nothing but respect and admiration towards the fans who are love the characters so much and connect with them. I wish I had this kind of passion for other things in my life (Don't get me wrong, I do). But it is one thing to be passionate about a character who is fictional, and attack other people as a way to defend the character from critisizm. And I'm talking about all the couple fans, not anyone specifically.

I have a confession: "Aria is A" is my favorite theory out of all the theories out there. I'm well aware to the fact that it is equally hated as much as it is popular among the fans. I'm also well aware to the fact that Alison is not A, neither does Spencer. Again, like I said above, people here sometime post really creative theories that conflicts other people's love for a specific character,(whether it's Aria, Alison or others), but instead of having a mature discussion people attack the theory maker and write some immature things towards them, while acting as if the theory maker destroyed PLL.

I know this whole post seems judgmental on my side (and I'm sorry if it sound like that), and I know I sometimes take thing too seriously (because let's face it, it's the internet. That place can be worse than hell LOL), but I write this because I LOVE this wikia. It gave me some exciting, thrilling and funny moments over the last couple of months and for that I'm thankful, to all of you.

I don't think that I have anything to add. Just remember there are people with feelings behind the screen, and those people have feelings too - so try and think twice before you critisize or answer them.

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