Talk:Emison/@comment-25300188-20140817041209/@comment-69.88.157.60-20140817180038

^ first one-sided love isn't considered mutual love. It's called Emily's first crush. Oftentimes with your first crush you idealize them because you don't know them. Then when you get to them you realize they're less than perfect and they're not who you thought they were. Once you've see their true colors you realize you didn't like them as much as you thought. The crush goes from being idealized and perfect to being nothing or knocked off their pedestal, so to speak. So basically the crush turns out not as great as you thought they were. Uncritical admiration isn't love. That's where Emily's at right now. Disappointed at realizing Ali isn't as perfect as she thought she was.