Talk:Who's In The Box?/@comment-79.112.234.117-20131125141800/@comment-24004040-20131126181051

WHO did Hanna lose? NO ONE. And her father isn't gone, the parent's divorced and it doesn't seem like Hanna desperately wants them back together. Emily is in fact being the one targeted the most in a physical way, but Spencer is the one being targeted the most in mental way.

And I'm sorry but Spencer's family is not healthy or in anyway good. I rather have parent's like Hanna or Emily or Aria than Spencer's, really. Even though Hanna's parent's are divorced, and her father was complicated (although alot due to -A blackmailing Hanna), but they still loved Hanna both dearly and Ashley is a fantastic mother. Hanna doesn't really is in need of her father since Ashley is the most best mother on the show in my eyes. And even though Emily's mum had problems with Emily's sexualitiy, she tried. A lot. And her parent's are lovely concering Emily and love her really whole-hearted, even her mother accepted who she is. Aria, yes, her father blackmailed her into keeping the affair a secret, that's really a bad thing and it hurts a lot, but even I would forgive that because I could understand even after everything that her father only wanted to protect his family. And now they both live their own life, happily and it's better for Aria too, because she finally could let go of her guilt.

Spencer, well, her parent's are always away and even though Melissa seems to care, ALL of her family members aren't really trusting towards her and everyone of them even thought for a split second that she killed Alison. I could understand the girls thinking about Aria's dead being a possibilty (after everything that kinda lead to it), but her OWN family didn't even really trust her. Furthermore is she under A LOT of pressure. Her parent's want her to be the best and if she's not they aren't really aknowledgeing her (like when her father thought she wrote that essay and he was totally nice and all) and she is constantly under the influence that her sister will always be best and is loved most. Even though Em's mother tried to accept her sexuality and now even does, Spencer's parent's still aren't on terms with her being with Toby (even before they broke up because of the -A thing). And while her mother seems to be a bit more open hearted since midseason three, when Spencer was released from Radley, all she had in mind was what other people would think of them.

I'd rather have the other girls pairings than Spencers, really.