Talk:Toby Cavanaugh/@comment-155.41.54.54-20130903141059/@comment-76.17.206.121-20130904170311

You are really, a cold, mean person. His mother was MAYBE KILLED OR COMMITTED SUICIDE. SO IT WAS DIFFICULT FOR HIM. Sorry that he isn't perfect, and din't just say "OH yes, Spencer, your thing with A is soooo much more important then my mom!"

He wasn't asking her to hurt her friends, he was asking her to keep his secrets. And I am sorry, but some people are just so into guy hating, they think that any time your boyfriend hurts you its automatically a "fault". No. Sometimes its simply a mistake. Spencer is strong, and smart enough to understand that she has a good honset guy. He will be just as passionate to help and love her as he was about his mother. And being independent isn't the same as being able to do everything either alone, or with your girls friends. There is nothing wrong with your guy helping you do things. She helps him, and he helps her. thats how it should be.