Talk:Toby Cavanaugh/@comment-155.41.54.54-20130903141059/@comment-91.37.74.20-20130914153044

If you are hating Toby because of that, but love Spencer than you are a hypocrite.

Spencer did SO often turn her back to the girls just because of -A.

-A may be a problem, but friends always go first. When Emily was hurt, she didn't help her, when Hanna needed her, she didn't even listen. Spencer is so often obsessed with -A, that she forgets everything else.

And why is it wrong for Toby to find out about his mum? He went through so much and he never really had a person to rely on. He thought for so many years, that the only woman that truly loved him in his life commited suicide, but then found out that she was killed and that maybe from someone in connection with the A-Team. That would have helped the girls too, because who knows what killing Toby's mum means for the liars?

Toby always was very selfless, I don't see a problem in there that he wants to find out the truth. He was kinda a bit obsessive with finding out, but that's the same with Spencer. And really, -A has been there for SO long, life still goes on, so why shouldn't he search for the truth? He can't see into the future, he didn't know what happened to Emily, because he wasn't even there. -A was his only chance of finding out the truth, it wouldn't have made -A disappear. Life doesn't stop just because -A exsists. Spencer and him have many things in common, and if you hate Toby because of it, you'll have to hate Spencer too. Being an A-member made him a bit more tougher.

You can't say her thing with -A is more important. You can't even compare those dimensions, because Spencer would do excatly the same if it was her mum, even if she doesn't admit it. What can Toby do against -A? He is as hopeless as the other liars and his life goes on, so he can search for his mother as he wants too. Stop hating on him, his character is very complex and you can't say he is shit because he isn't going to college, that's his life situation, it's not his fault that he couldn't, in fact, it's the liars fault, because they didn't say the truth about the Jenna thing. Does that make me hate them? NO. Everyone has their own priorities and can be selfish in some situations. Toby always was selfless, so now it was his chance to only once demand what he wants.

Spencer is the same, so if you hate Toby, than hate at least Spencer the same amount.