Talk:Welcome to the Dollhouse/@comment-26229554-20150321133728/@comment-5660329-20150321153759

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It is; however, one can say something is ridiculous or a person is being ridiculous. Saying "fuck off", even as a joke, isn't right. The "😜" could have been a way for you to make it sound as if you were kidding but weren't. Idk, but it still wasn't right. You didn't apologize then or clarify which would've been the best time to do so.

Second, there is a big difference between you not reading the rules at all and me reading the rules when I first joined the wiki about three or four years ago. I remember the basics; and I try to do what I can to not get in trouble. Not reading them at all is a problem and, again, even if you couldn't open them: all you had to do was politely ask another user or an admin and explain what happened. We could have told you what was and what was not acceptable. The fact that you neglected to do so isn't our fault, like Selena said.

Third, I was not the one that blocked you. In order to unblock you, I would have to get permission from the person who blocked you and Selena feels that you did something wrong. When I read your post, I read it as if you were serious and other users may have too.

That's the thing, had you said "screw you 😜", we might have thought differently. You said "fuck you 😜" which isn't acceptable.

Lastly: I see you completely missed my point where I said if you have a problem with the user or an admin, you take it up with them in a private chat and you don't post a comment calling out the users that you feel did you wrong. Also, I said that sometimes: admin's block without reason if they feel that something is really unacceptable. I'm not the one that blocked you, you would have to take that up with Selena and I highly recommend that you speak with her in a private chat. To conclude, I'm not the one who said that either so if you have a problem with what was said: speak to the person directly in a private chat.

Calling out users in a post is not the mature thing to do. Speak to them privately. And it's not "only" a chat forum. Yes, it's a way for people to discuss thoughts on episodes and theories. To others, it's a way for people to read up on episodes they may have missed.. To some, it's a way for them to make "friendships" (so to speak). It is highly recommended that people think about what they want to say and whether it may be seen as inappropriate and, if it is, it is best not to say it. Or find another way to politely reword it.