Talk:The Melody Lingers On/@comment-26211734-20150310175859

Wow. Looks like I missed a lot the past 12 hours. Here's what I think. There are some people here who go too far in shipping. They only care about the people who ship their ships. Then there are people who don't ship almost any ship, but yes, they do bash the actual person. But except for one occasion, when this happened to me, everyone apologized to me for being rude. Here's an example. Amanda once implied that there must be something wrong with me since I ship both Ezria and Spoby. I did jump to conclusions that this was a personal attack. But after all was said and done, she apologized to me. She was able to apologize for that implication that something was wrong with me, but she still held on to her opinion that Ezria and Spoby are gross. So pretty much, I'm saying that I think it's fine to hate or bash a ship, or a character all you want. But you don't get to bash the user, whether you mean to or not. So take a lesson from Amanda and me. (Btw, yes guys I did apologize to Amanda for going all Spencer on her; I should have known Amanda wasn't hating on me.) Bash a ship, not the shipper! If someone is hurt by your words, take a step back, and think about whether it's your fault. If so, just apologize for hurting the person. Don't apologize for your opinion. Just remember to not take this too far, or hide behind your screenname to bully.

@Handsome: yes you do say some pretty sarcastic stuff, and I used to take it personally, but now I just laugh, because ik you're not a jerk.

@Amanda: I hope you don't mind me using our disagreement as an example here. It just seems like a good example of two people apologizing, but still having opinions.

<3 you guys! Happy PLL Day!