Talk:Now You See Me, Now You Don't/@comment-17899646-20130915170601/@comment-17899646-20130922044734

^ (sorry this is so long) I don't sugar coat stuff. I just say what I mean and you can interperet it any way you want. And Spencer isn't even a real character and we've watched her for 4 1/2 seasons straight so we know her just as much as she would know herself. So we know when she's being out of character and stuff aka not acting like herself. We also pay attention and see certain things she may be blinded to for certain reasons. Like, if someone in your family was acting really shady and suspicious, other people may notice, but you probably would dismiss it because you don't want to believe it (like Spencer did). Or if your bf was emotionally abusising you, you may not notice because your "blinded by love" or simply don't want you to believe it. But your friends and family would because they're not "blinded by love", so they would try to get you away fom him. I think Toby affects her character in a negative way. He makes her lie to her friends and raises her anxiety issues on purpose (he left after his fight with Spencer and let her sit there and worry about him, even though a simple text would've made her relax, and he even admitted he KNOWS this). Seeing this and seeing the way Spencer just resigns to this behavior, makes me think she shouldn't be with him. That and other reasons.

Plus, how can she be sure this is true love? How many boys has Spencer dated? ONE. Literally ONE (that lasted for about less that a week). If she's been with Toby all this time, how could she be so true that she wants to be with him forever. Or that this is "true love". Obviously she's not gonna think about this because he's her first love and she's still in love with him now, so she's gonna think and want be with him forever. But once she goes to college and starts dating around more, she probably will start thinking differently and see what she wants (and that may be him or it may not be Toby). The same goes for the rest of the girls.

Plus, him breaking up with her to let her get the full college experience would be really selfless actually. He doesn't want to break up with her, but he thinks it's best for her so he does it anyway.