Talk:The Bin of Sin/@comment-25840782-20150127181417/@comment-25977749-20150127211336

Don't ever think you can make the right decision from the start and figure out every detail of your life. (Not at the age of sixteen.) That is impossible. But keep those dreams you have and write them down. They are like your mission statement, you have to stick to them, by whatever means they take form in life. ( Really write that stuff down – that is a psychologically proven to have effect. And talk to somebody, talking is like writing down, a way to self reflect.) And by the way life is constantly full of changes and twists. You cannot predict anything.

So if you feel somehow like your life goal seems foggy and you cannot find the right path, then that is totally normal. Because you haven't figured out your what your real life goal is yet, and sometimes it just needs time to find that out. The only right thing to do  now, is to take action and take the first step, in any direction. Then you will find your future.

So here some worst case scenario: After one semester, you figured out, that none of the courses are what you want and need, even the college seems wrong. Then go to your professors or guidance counselors and I promise they will support you and help you how to proceed next. Cause then you will at last know, what you don't want – and now comes the trick: you'll inverely know, what you really want in life! So give it time, after you took a step first. The worst thing that can happen, is that this will guide you to the right place;-)

So you can do it!