Talk:Close Encounters/@comment-99.150.154.105-20131105130921/@comment-24004040-20140107123831

I don't even know what your problem is.

Aria and Ezra have a really, really complicated relationship. People always want Aria to behave like a teenager and when she does, people complain.

Aria totally is overwhelmed with everything happening regarding her relationship. She kisses other guys only then when her relationship with Ezra is totally on the loose and she just wants back what she had. She kisses Wes because he reminds her of Ezra and of their time without any problems. Same case with Jason.

Ezra is a lot more mature in that case, he doesn't have the need to start "cheating" on Aria with other people. But it's not like their relationship is normal. If Ezra really considered that cheating, he would have broken up with Aria long ago, but he knows that it's difficult for her, because she is still so young but she has to sacrafice so much for that relationship. I don't even really consider what Aria does as cheating. It's a peck on the lips, something I do with my best friends too (but that's only my opinion).

So I get really annoyed when people talk about Aria cheating but at the same time want her to behave like a teenager. She fucking does. She didn't even know what she got herself into when she started it with Ezra and their relationship is the most complicated from the three, so of course she is confused and always has that question "What if?" and I'm pretty sure that I would experience the same difficult as Aria if that things would happen to me. She is not kissing those guys as to cheat, she is kissing them as to forget how complicated her relationship with Ezra is and that it's always doomed in some ways.

And Jake and Aria, that's not even dating for me. It was pretty clear from the beginning that Aria got onto Jake because she wanted to forget Ezra. But Ezra is her one true love and when she didn't spoke to him for so long and she saw how miserable he was and they talked about old times, she just felt that love again and they kissed. Between Jake and Aria, that was nothing serious (well for me) and therefore I don't consider that cheating.

That's only my opinion though. If you see it different, than so be it, but many people don't seem to regocnize that Ezra and Aria's relationship it nothing normal and nothing where you can keep the same record.