Talk:Dead to Me/@comment-5224716-20130207132351

Spencer was upset when she saw A's empty lair because:

"The P.I said Toby bought﻿ hydrangea's from his credit card. That flower has 20 petals. Spencer said you have to find the flower with the odd # of petals. It lands on odd. That means "he loves me not". Plus, those flowers were on his mother's tomb. Toby knew she had the key. If he loved her, he would have stayed there, or left those flowers. Instead, he packed everything up and left. She wrote toby on his mothers grave because he's dead to her. Hence the name "dead to me" for the ep. :("

I copied this from 3x19 promo.