Talk:Oh, What Hard Luck Stories They All Hand Me/@comment-25584522-20150201002258/@comment-26106320-20150201013946

^hurt is a very abstract concept.

I think everyone knows what hurt is for themselfs. Few Woman or Men like it to be hit during sex. But they wouldn't call it violence. However, if youre living in a state where its legal to hit your wife and it hurts her then there could be the process of realising its becoming violence. But not always. And in order that they dont know it any better. They know violence when they decide that they did not want it and were forced to it. (The slep for example) Then they know for themselfes that it is violence. They defined it however they call it or if they give that feeling a name at all. I'm with you that many of them are not aware that its against international human rights and stuff, but they defined it for themselfes as violence when they disliked it. I hope I made my point clear, I'm not a native speaker and please don't be hard on my wording. Its an abstract process so I tried to be abstract as possible and still express it in words, this is hard :)